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Don't Read Don't Ask and I Won't Have to Lie IF

If you are looking for a book that's going to change your life, don't read Don't Ask And I Won't Have to Lie.

If you want to read a book that's going to inspire you to take action, Don't Ask and I Won't Have to Lie isn't for you.

If you think Don't Ask And I Won't Have to Lie is going to change your lying ways--think again.

Don't Ask and I Won't Have to Lie may not make you feel good about your life.

Here's the point: Not every book is designed to be a self-help, inspirational, motivational, take action kind of book. Some books are just designed to be enjoyable to read--an opportunity to get inside an author's head and compare your life notes. Some books are just meant to entertain, while others may have you nodding your head in agreement with some of what you read. That's what Don't Ask and I Won't Have to Lie is all about.

Don't Ask and I Won't Have to Lie started out as a personal account of a LIE I told that nearly cost me my life. I hope my story serves as a testimony for someone else--but also give you something to think about as you deal with your own truths and untruths.

One thing I will guarantee you is, there will be something in my book that will definitely make you THINK.

You can order a copy of my new book from or directly from my website:
Don't Ask

And there's a cool card game to go with it!


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