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Giving Children Grand Support


Today at my grandson's school there was a special event: Boys to Men Luncheon. Fathers, granddads, brothers, uncles, cousins, mentors, males role models were invited to come hang out with their child and enjoy lunch---let me say TRY to enjoy lunch because I've eaten in that cafeteria.

I decided to pop in to capture a Kodak moment and much to my surprise, the parking lot was jam-packed with cars. Once inside the cafeteria, I was overcome with emotion when I saw ALL of the men who had shown up to eat with their kids. These men took time out of their day to do something they believed was important.

I am a firm believer that when men show up as an active and loving participant in their children's lives, the children fare much better because of it. Moms and grand moms are used to doing it but seeing a positive male role model in a child's life speaks volumes and, whether you want to believe it or not, teachers do notice those things because then they know they have another level of support to reach out to.

My grandson was represented today by his grandfather and great-grandfather and his dad, who I'm sure was smiling down from Heaven.

Thank you Spring Valley for a wonderful idea!

Comments

WorkingBoomer said…
Great blog and I agree! I wish that I could be more involved in my grandchildrens lives but difficult circumstances does not allow me to do that. Keep you the great blogs.

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